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Then he starts moving inside you-very slowly. Kiss your boyfriend and stroke yourself during the brief lull before the fucking starts. Your boyfriend should instead stay perfectly still for the first minute or two while you breathe and relax. Once he’s all the way inside, TUSH, your boyfriend may be tempted to start banging away, porn-star style, but that would be a huge mistake. Keep breathing as the rest of his dick slowly-a fraction of an inch at a time-slides into you. You’ll feel your asshole begin to open as the head of his cock enters you. He should apply some pressure: uniform, constant, gentle pressure. Move into whatever position feels most comfortable for you-him on top, you on top, face to face, doggy-style-and point the tip of his hard cock directly at your hole. Have your boyfriend apply lube directly to your hole he should gently rub your hole for a bit, to help it relax, before using a finger or two to push some lube just inside you you can apply the lube to his dick. You’re going to need lots of lube, TUSH, and lots of patience. (Once more with feeling: squeaky-clean butts! ) The point is for you to do anal a few times with the boyfriend and for both of you to get off-you and the boyfriend-without his dick going anywhere near your ass. For extra credit, you can experiment with rimming, if you haven’t already, as nothing relaxes anal sphincters quite so effectively. Now you’re gonna spend some time sticking fingers and toys in your butts and jerking off together. Your butts are squeaky clean and, hey, you’ve got the house all to yourselves… is it time to fuck? Not yet. Okay! So you’ve both done some exploring on your own-jacked off with fingers and toys-and there you are, just you and your boyfriend, hanging out. I don’t care if your boyfriend is a top-or thinks he is, or is topping because you want to bottom-your boyfriend will be a better top if he knows what it feels like to be penetrated and enjoys penetration himself. You can really take your time and you won’t feel like you’re disappointing your boyfriend if you have to bail. Exploring anal penetration solo will allow you to experience anal pleasure without any pressure or expectations, TUSH. I recommend that you get your hands on a butt plug, get your ass on that butt plug, and get yourself off with that butt plug in your ass. But if you and your boyfriend want to give anal another go, TUSH, here’s a crash course in anal sex-ed…įirst, experiment on your own. There are so many ways that you and your boyfriend can get off together-mutual masturbation, oral sex, frottage (aka “wet humping”)-that are just as pleasurable, just as “real”, and just as gay as anal intercourse. Anal doesn’t define you as gay men and it certainly isn’t all there is to gay sex. Gay men and boys can be successes in life, in love, and in the sack without acing-or even enjoying-anal intercourse. You and your boyfriend aren’t failing gayness, TUSH. Do we really need to use condoms? We are both virgins and each other’s first boyfriend.
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We are ready to start having real gay sex-with me on the bottom, at least for now!-and we are frustrated and feel like failures as gay men. We tried and we used condoms, but I think we must be doing something wrong because we can’t do it. (Big surprise!) I tried to talk to my mom about gay sex, and all she said was “please use condoms”. But we are frustrated! We had sex education in our schools, but they didn’t cover gay sex. We are not bullied or suicidal or using drugs.
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(He’s one year older than me, Dan, so relax!) We are out to our parents and everyone is supportive. I’m gay and a junior in high school, and I’ve had a boyfriend for a year.